Nannies constantly email Be the Best Nanny Newsletter privately for advice. In response we will post a regular feature on the Be the Best Nanny Newsletter blog asking nannies for their advice for the questions posed to our nanny newsletter.
Our first question is asked from a nanny on the East Coast. Feel free to answer question in comments below.
Dear Nannies of Be the Best Nanny Newsletter:
I am a full-time nanny but I also work a side, part-time nanny job that pays wonderfully once or twice a month. I love the kids, parents, and the job and don't want to risk the job.
I usually arrive after the children have had dinner and baths, although I do much more than a typical Saturday night babysitter might do. We don't turn on the TV, instead I play with them, read to them, and put them to bed.
Last week the parents ask that I come four hours earlier than usual. Last Saturday I fed and bathed the children. Then, we played and read books before bed. After the kids went to bed I cleaned up their playroom and kitchen.
The parents came home, I discussed the evening with the mother, and the father rushed in and handed me the check, which I just stuck in my pocket. When I arrived home I realized he hadn't paid me for the extra four hours I had worked.
My question for other nannies is: Should I ask the parents for the extra four hours they forgot to pay me or let it slide?